Focue Provides the Latest and Most Up-to-Date News, What You Focus On is What You Get.
⎯ 《 Focue • Com 》
Upstreman on Amazon Prime Big Deal Days: Elevating Refrigeration With Unbeatable Deals
Upstreman on Amazon Prime Big Deal Days: Elevating Refrigeration With Unbeatable Deals
HOUSTON--(BUSINESS WIRE)--Oct 3, 2023--
2023-10-04 00:00
UBS says Credit Suisse CEO Koerner to join leadership of combined group
UBS says Credit Suisse CEO Koerner to join leadership of combined group
ZURICH UBS Group said on Tuesday Credit Suisse CEO Ulrich Koerner will join the executive board of the
1970-01-01 08:00
Influencer sparks debate for praising boyfriend who told her she's 'not that pretty'
Influencer sparks debate for praising boyfriend who told her she's 'not that pretty'
A popular blogger and OnlyFans star has sparked a fierce debate online after praising her boyfriend for giving his “honest opinion” about her looks. The commentator, who goes by the name Aella, revealed her partner’s blunt assessment of her appearance in response to a tweet from another content creator. In her message, @ThePostsOffice wrote: "Being a girl’s boyfriend is all about committing to the bit that she is a 10/10 and the most beautiful woman you have ever seen." But Aella, a polyamorous former escort, admitted this hadn’t been her experience, replying: “One of my partners once was like 'you're not that pretty' during a tender moment. I rolled over in the fetal position and groaned for like an hour.” However, she continued: “He went and made me an I'm sorry card out of construction paper and markers and stickers.” Alongside her tweet were two pictures of the homemade apology letter, in which the man wrote: “I’m sorry I told you you’re not that pretty during a tender moment and that I made you doubt that I ever desired you. “Before forsaking my cultural wisdom, I should have considered how it would feel and been ready with [kisses].” Aella’s post racked up more than 17.2 million views and 7,100 retweets in a week, as fellow X/Twitter users shared their horror at the partner’s comment. “If any ‘partner’ of mine said that to me in bed I'd kick them out of the door immediately and never allow them to see me again,” one wrote. “Life is too short to tolerate a ‘lover’ who feels like you're anything less than the prettiest person they've ever seen.” “Omg he doesn't even say 'sorry for my cruel attempt at humour, you are the most attractive girl I've ever seen',” noted another. “He says 'sorry I forsook my cultural wisdom and told you the truth'... OUCH boy!” “Where is he getting the idea that this is the objective truth?” asked a third. Aella responded by defending her man (who she's still dating), writing: “To be fair he said it in response to me mourning that [people] are not incentivized to be honest about each other's physical appearances, he was trying to be helpful by giving me his honest opinion since I wanted [people] to be more honest.” She then added: “He's one of the kindest, most caring men I've dated! He was trying to be honest with me when he thought I really wanted that, he was genuinely trying to help me. I appreciate that and I find the entire event pretty endearing. “[In my opinion] people who don't say true things out of love because they're afraid of hurting me are more cowardly and I prefer not to date those people. I'm very much a ‘seek out the painful truth and sob’ kind of person both in general and in relationships.” She then shared a text message the boyfriend sent her in response to the public outcry over his behaviour, in which he wrote that he had “half a mind to [...] include a non-makeup’d photo of [her] and be like ‘look, she is fairly pretty and very attractive and gorgeous when she tries, but that’s different from being effortlessly pretty all the time as some girls in fact are.” He went on: “Lying injures everyone’s ability to trust truthtelling and the thing where lots of women are deeply insecure about their appearance in an inconsolable way is *built out of* all your lies.” However, he conceded: “I admit error both in misunderstanding what she was asking for and in offering it without triple-checking first and in offering it without a bunch of support and reassurance prepared in advance.” Yet, his defence did little to assuage people’s concerns and disapproval. In a lengthy rebuttal, one commentator pointed out: “Beauty is subjective. Everyone has wildly different tastes and things they find attractive. But he’s applying black-and-white thinking to your beauty and speaking from a place of ‘truth’ (during an intimate moment, no less) when in reality… It’s not *the* truth, because there isn’t one truth for beauty. It’s *his* truth.” “There are other men who’d be 100 per cent honest, sharing *their* truth, that they find you stunning.” The woman, called Elle Beecher, continued: “I take major issue when people excuse their careless comments under the guise of ‘truth,’ like they’re some omniscient narrator who can speak from an objective place. You’re ‘not that pretty’ to him. He can’t speak for anyone else. “My gut reaction is that there are so many men who’d happily fulfil your needs and find you stunning, and tell you that in full honesty… so why date a guy who doesn’t?” Concluding her monologue, Elle added: “I support you and your choices fully. But this story makes me sad. I understand that you want to be with someone truthful (as do I), but I wonder why that can’t be with someone who says you’re beautiful and means it.” Sign up for our free Indy100 weekly newsletter Have your say in our news democracy. Click the upvote icon at the top of the page to help raise this article through the indy100 rankings.
2023-09-12 21:01
New York Rejects Offshore Wind's Request to Raise Rates
New York Rejects Offshore Wind's Request to Raise Rates
New York state unanimously rejected requests from offshore wind developers including Equinor ASA and Orsted A/S for higher
2023-10-13 01:12
Lakelyn Doyle: Wife of missing South Carolina boater Tyler Doyle who vanished four months ago gives birth to first child
Lakelyn Doyle: Wife of missing South Carolina boater Tyler Doyle who vanished four months ago gives birth to first child
Lakelyn Doyle and Tyler Doyle planned to name their baby Paisley Grace as per the hints from their social media posts before the disappearance
2023-05-17 01:09
Webb telescope stares into a galaxy that's long intrigued scientists
Webb telescope stares into a galaxy that's long intrigued scientists
In 1884, over a century before the James Webb Space Telescope was even imagined, astronomer
2023-08-05 17:30
Fabinho reacts to Liverpool signing Alexis Mac Allister and Dominik Szoboszlai
Fabinho reacts to Liverpool signing Alexis Mac Allister and Dominik Szoboszlai
Fabinho reacts to Liverpool signing midfield duo Alexis Mac Allister and Dominik Szoboszlai.
2023-07-10 01:15
This viral AI image of an 'explosion' near the Pentagon never happened
This viral AI image of an 'explosion' near the Pentagon never happened
The dangers of artificial intelligence (AI) spreading harmful misinformation were made clear once again on Monday, when local fire service officials were forced to confirm there had not been an ‘explosion’ at the Pentagon in Virginia – despite an AI-generated image appearing to suggest there had been. The main image, shared by several fake accounts with blue tick ‘verification’, depicts black smoke billowing close to the Pentagon building, with another showing a distant photo of smoke next to the US defence department headquarters. Stating that the reports are unfounded, the Arlington Fire and Emergency Medical Services Twitter account wrote: “[The Pentagon Force Protection Agency] and the ACFD [Arlington County Fire Department] are aware of a social media report circulating online about an explosion near the Pentagon. “There is NO explosion or incident taking place at or near the Pentagon reservation, and there is no immediate danger or hazards to the public.” Fortunately, while paid-for blue tick accounts have been promised greater promotion on Twitter, a search for ‘Pentagon’ on the social media network brings up a string of tweets from ‘unverified’ accounts debunking the AI image: Stocks reportedly tanked following the fake image, and it isn’t the first time that’s happened, either. The pharmaceutical company Eli Lilly saw a sudden drop last year when an imposter tweeted “insulin is free”. Sign up to our free Indy100 weekly newsletter And if tricksters aren’t targeting the Pentagon with AI-generated imagery, then they’re using the software to create pictures of the Pope in a puffer jacket and former US President Donald Trump being arrested. In fact, it was only last month that Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, the New York representative, warned of “major potential harm” at the hands of fake AI images. “Jokes aside, this is setting the stage for major potential harm when a natural disaster hits and no one knows what agencies, reporters, or outlets are real. “Not long ago we had major flash floods. We had to mobilize trusted info fast to save lives. Today just made that harder,” she said. It seems we’re there already… Have your say in our news democracy. Click the upvote icon at the top of the page to help raise this article through the indy100 rankings.
2023-05-23 03:09
Namibia recognises same-sex marriages concluded abroad with foreign spouse
Namibia recognises same-sex marriages concluded abroad with foreign spouse
Namibia's Supreme Court on Tuesday recognised same-sex marriages contracted abroad between citizens and foreign spouses, a landmark ruling in a...
2023-05-16 18:44
Marketmind: Central bank bonanza, yen intervention watch
Marketmind: Central bank bonanza, yen intervention watch
By Jamie McGeever A look at the day ahead in Asian markets from Jamie McGeever, financial markets columnist.
2023-09-21 05:47
'And Just Like That' fans roast sex columinist Carrie Bradshaw for being 'prudish' about Che and Miranda's lesbian talk
'And Just Like That' fans roast sex columinist Carrie Bradshaw for being 'prudish' about Che and Miranda's lesbian talk
'And Just Like That' viewers have noticed a surprising trend of prudish behavior from Carrie when it comes to discussing sex on the show
2023-07-07 17:09
Two-time Olympic triple jumper Ana José Tima banned 3 years for doping
Two-time Olympic triple jumper Ana José Tima banned 3 years for doping
Two-time Olympic triple jumper Ana José Tima has been banned for three years in a doping case
2023-07-05 18:28