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US 'pausing' some assistance programs to Niger government: Blinken
US 'pausing' some assistance programs to Niger government: Blinken
The United States is suspending some aid programs to the Niger government, Secretary of State Antony Blinken said Friday, more than one week after the country's...
2023-08-05 07:52
White House preparing for government shutdown as House Republicans lack a viable endgame for funding
White House preparing for government shutdown as House Republicans lack a viable endgame for funding
The White House is preparing to direct federal agencies to get ready for a shutdown after House Republicans left town for the weekend with no viable plan to keep the government funded
2023-09-23 01:03
Mom explains how to ‘raise your baby like it’s your third’
Mom explains how to ‘raise your baby like it’s your third’
One mom is exposing her secrets for first-time parents. In an interview with Today, mother of three Caroline Chambers opened up about the difficulties she endured with her first-born child. Although it’s very normal for mothers to experience certain symptoms related to postpartum, Chambers’ year of anxiety after delivery felt particularly difficult. “The first year of my child’s life was plagued with so much anxiety and fear,” she said. “Of course, I was obsessed with him and had so many amazing moments of just loving it, but there was also just a lot of fear around the unknown.” Despite the cookbook author’s prior struggles, she was still keen to grow her family. By the time her second child, Callum, was born, she’d gained a new perspective on being a parent. “None of it matters. They’re going to sleep eventually. None of it is actually a pattern. You can’t actually diagnose it. You can’t actually Google your way into better sleep. It just takes time,” she recalled to the outlet. Chambers is a mother to three sons: Mattis, five, Callum, three, and Cashel, one. While feeding schedules and nap times for her son Mattis were overwhelming and stress-inducing, Callum’s care was a “more joyful” experience for her, having already known what works and what doesn’t for newborns. The intuitive mother recognised that both parenthood and being a mother is “terrifying the first time because you don’t know what to expect”. Still, she explained that welcoming more children into her life helped her learn that babies aren’t the “precious little fragile creatures that we think they are.” Chambers took to her Instagram account last April, revealing her tips for raising your first child like your third. First, she suggested taking opportunities to “leave your baby”. Chambers emphasised the importance of taking time for yourself and allowing babysitters to take over for a few hours, so you can either go on a solo date or enjoy time with your partner. “Your husband isn’t the enemy. The baby is the enemy,” Chambers jokingly wrote. For her next tip, she said that “this too shall pass.” According to Chambers, each phase for a baby is fleeting, lasting around “two weeks and it’s on to the next thing”. Chambers also told her followers not to leave the house chores for when your baby asleep. Not only will this feel like you’re being overworked without any breaks, but Chambers pointed out how babies don’t mind watching you vacuum or do the dishes. “Put on your oxygen mask first,” she continued. “You can’t take care of your baby if you can’t take care of yourself. Take a shower. Eat delicious meals with lots of greens and protein. If you feel sad, call your OB and tell her about those feelings... Get a blowout. Go get lunch or dinner by yourself.” Lastly, Chambers urged mothers not to fall victim to the “four Bs of a bedtime routine” and maintained that following the sequence of “bath, boob/bottle, book, bed” isn’t necessary. “As long as the baby is fed and in bed, they will not care how you get them there. Dunked in the bath once a week, they are FINE,” she wrote. Many thankful mothers chimed in, adding their own advice and experience after Chambers encouraged them to do so in her caption. “Love this!!!!! We bathe our baby one to two times a week. MAX. I’d also add: the whole eat, play sleep order is BS! Don’t stress about it. Feed when they need it. Love following you & learning mama,” one mother noted. Another commented: “For the toddler phase: Tell them, ‘I’m going to close my eyes and when I open them, I’ll see… (insert whatever you’re trying to get them to do)”. This ALWAYS works for my kiddo when I need him to put on his clothes, go to the bathroom, etc. It’s magic!” The Independent has reached out to Chambers for a comment. Read More People rally around mother who explained why she ‘hates being a mom sometimes’ Princess Eugenie apologises as she makes motherhood confession ‘It was terrifying’: All the things Jada Smith Pinkett has said about her alopecia ‘It was terrifying’: All the things Jada Smith Pinkett has said about her alopecia Scientists say we’ve all been using sunscreen wrong in new cancer warning If being without your phone fills you with dread, you could have nomophobia
2023-11-01 01:07
'The show must go on': Billie Eilish performs at Ireland concert despite being 'really sick'
'The show must go on': Billie Eilish performs at Ireland concert despite being 'really sick'
Billie Eilish did not disappoint her fans in Ireland on Friday night even though she wasn't in the best of health
2023-09-03 19:19
Watchdog agency increases its pandemic unemployment benefits fraud estimate to as much as $135 billion
Watchdog agency increases its pandemic unemployment benefits fraud estimate to as much as $135 billion
As much as $135 billion in fraudulent Covid-19 pandemic unemployment insurance claims were likely paid out, according to a report released Tuesday by the US Government Accountability Office.
2023-09-13 06:21
Activision bid receives UK regulatory approval
Activision bid receives UK regulatory approval
Microsoft's acquisition of Activision Blizzard has been approved by the UK regulator.
2023-10-13 21:00
How did Lisa 'Left Eye' Lopes die? TLC's T-Boz claims ex-bandmate would've been the 'female Kanye West' today
How did Lisa 'Left Eye' Lopes die? TLC's T-Boz claims ex-bandmate would've been the 'female Kanye West' today
Tionne 'T-Boz' Watkins discusses her former bandmate Lisa 'Left Eye' Lopes in a recent documentary
2023-06-04 18:42
Aussie defending champ Lee leads at LPGA Founders Cup
Aussie defending champ Lee leads at LPGA Founders Cup
Defending champion Minjee Lee, the world number six from Australia, fired a five-under par 67 to grab a three-stroke lead after Saturday's third round...
1970-01-01 08:00
Internet baffled as Joe Scarborough shares list of 'most dangerous' places in US with 'Dem cities' at top
Internet baffled as Joe Scarborough shares list of 'most dangerous' places in US with 'Dem cities' at top
Joe Scarborough has shared an article citing the "most dangerous place in the US"
2023-09-12 12:50
Cultural counteroffensive: Ukrainians shun Russian symbols
Cultural counteroffensive: Ukrainians shun Russian symbols
Russian masterpieces are hidden away in a Ukrainian museum, writers like Pushkin and Dostoyevsky are shunned and the Russian...
2023-08-29 17:34
British-Nigerian hacker pleads guilty to $6m fraud in US court
British-Nigerian hacker pleads guilty to $6m fraud in US court
Idris Dayo Mustapha, 33, was part of a ring that hacked into the accounts of American firms.
2023-11-29 18:40
UPS, Teamsters Reach Tentative Labor Deal Avoiding Strike
UPS, Teamsters Reach Tentative Labor Deal Avoiding Strike
United Parcel Service Inc. reached a tentative agreement to renew a five-year labor contract with the Teamsters ahead
2023-07-26 00:37