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Mikel Arteta provides injury updates on three key Arsenal stars ahead of West Ham clash
Mikel Arteta provides injury updates on three key Arsenal stars ahead of West Ham clash
Mikel Arteta provides injury updates on Martin Odegaard, Gabriel Jesus & Thomas Partey ahead of Arsenal's Carabao Cup clash with West Ham.
2023-10-31 23:30
Who was Stephanie Pullman? Death of elderly woman over $51 due changes regulated utility policy in Arizona
Who was Stephanie Pullman? Death of elderly woman over $51 due changes regulated utility policy in Arizona
Stephanie Pullman lost her life at 72 years of age after being left without power on a very hot day in 2018
2023-07-25 16:25
Pacific and Atlantic hurricanes Norma and Tammy make landfall on Saturday in Mexico and Barbuda
Pacific and Atlantic hurricanes Norma and Tammy make landfall on Saturday in Mexico and Barbuda
Hurricane Norma came ashore near the Pacific resort of Los Cabos at the southern tip of Mexico’s Baja California Peninsula
2023-10-22 18:24
Kanye West's wife Bianca Censori 'keeps him grounded' with rapper finding 'peace' in new marriage
Kanye West's wife Bianca Censori 'keeps him grounded' with rapper finding 'peace' in new marriage
Kanye West married Bianca Censori in January, less than two months after finalising his divorce from first wife Kim Kardashian
2023-05-29 23:17
'I am not dead people': Britney Spears dismisses conspiracy theories surrounding her well-being
'I am not dead people': Britney Spears dismisses conspiracy theories surrounding her well-being
'This is a flashback to remind me to get my a*s on the dance floor and shake my a*s !!! PSSS I'm an equal American citizen now,' said Britney Spears
2023-06-09 02:32
Gordon rushes for 164 yards and 3 TDs, No. 24 Oklahoma State beats Houston 43-30
Gordon rushes for 164 yards and 3 TDs, No. 24 Oklahoma State beats Houston 43-30
Alan Bowman threw for 348 yards and two touchdowns, Ollie Gordon II rushed for 164 yards and three second half touchdowns and No. 24 Oklahoma State kept their hopes of reaching the Big 12 Championship game alive with a 43-30 win over Houston Saturday
2023-11-19 08:57
'The Five' hosts claim Foreign Relations Committee facilitates corruption in wake of Bob Menendez indictment
'The Five' hosts claim Foreign Relations Committee facilitates corruption in wake of Bob Menendez indictment
'The Five' hosts made the claims while comparing the bribery charges brought against Bob Menendez and Hunter Biden
2023-09-26 16:03
Farrell and Smith to start for England in quarter-final against Fiji
Farrell and Smith to start for England in quarter-final against Fiji
Owen Farrell and Marcus Smith will both start for England against Fiji in the World Cup quarter-final...
2023-10-13 19:22
Netherlands media guide
Netherlands media guide
An overview of the media in the Netherlands, including links to broadcasters and newspapers.
2023-06-19 17:06
Wild sign F Vinni Lettieri. Minnesota native and grandson of Lou Nanne gets a 2-way deal
Wild sign F Vinni Lettieri. Minnesota native and grandson of Lou Nanne gets a 2-way deal
The Minnesota Wild signed forward Vinni Lettieri to a two-year, two-way contract
2023-07-02 06:31
Bam Adebayo Skillfully Avoids Fine, Criticizing Refs
Bam Adebayo Skillfully Avoids Fine, Criticizing Refs
Bam Adebayo asks if reporter will be fined for officials question.
2023-06-02 20:53
How to help your teen with comparison culture on GCSE results day
How to help your teen with comparison culture on GCSE results day
Whether your child’s GCSE results are high, low, or somewhere in between, one thing is inevitable – they’ll compare them with their friends’ grades. This comparison culture, which is far more pervasive because of social media, can leave teens feeling inadequate because their results are worse than their mates, or make their friends feel useless if roles are reversed. But although there’s no getting away from teenagers comparing their results both on and offline, what can parents do to try and limit the damage this it can cause? Former teacher Dr Julia Clements, principal educational psychologist at the children’s mental health charity Place2Be, says the comparison of results will undoubtedly impact some teenagers’ wellbeing. “Your teenager is bound to compare their results with their peers at the same school, but also through social media,” she acknowledges. “Although this comparison is inevitable, it may be harmful for your child’s wellbeing – especially if they’ve not done as well as expected. “Indeed, the term ‘compare and despair’ can be especially pertinent on days like today.” Sharon Davies, CEO of Young Enterprise, a charity which helps young people navigate the changing world of work, adds: “The pressure to measure up to their friends’ achievements can be overwhelming, leading to feelings of inadequacy or disappointment.” So how can parents help their teens? 1. Ask how they feel If your child is down on themselves and rating themselves negatively in comparison to their friends, they may reject any positives and praise parents provide, Clements warns. “It may be more useful, in the first instance, to ask them how they’re feeling, and to acknowledge and validate difficult feelings,” she advises. Such feelings may include disappointment, sadness, anger, shame, or feeling as if they’ve let themselves – and you – down. “If your child is feeling like this, it’s important to give them the message that you love them unconditionally and you’re proud and pleased to be their parent because of who they are – not because of the grades they achieve,” she stresses. 2. If they’ve done better than their friends… If your child has achieved good results, which may be better than some of their friends, then they’ll want to celebrate. But while celebrating is of course a great idea, Clements suggests: “You may want to talk with them about how to be sensitive and compassionate towards their friends who haven’t done so well.” 3. Help them turn a negative into a positive Consultant clinical psychologist Dr Nihara Krause specialises in teenage mental health and is working with the Talking Futures campaign to help parents engage their children in meaningful conversations about their futures. She says if a young person doesn’t get the grades they were hoping for, they may be highly critical of their performance in comparison to their peers. But she suggests parents show them how to turn their negative thinking around. “Parents should encourage their children to focus on recognising the approach they took to exams this time round and take steps to reflect on what they could do to achieve a better result in the future. Focus on what helps a young person gain their own personal best, no matter how their results compare with others.” 4. Don’t ask about their friend’s results or post about them Krause says parents should try to celebrate their child’s achievements for what they are and avoid asking about their friends’ results. “To avoid comparison, parents should also avoid sharing their child’s results on social media,” she says. 5. Don’t be too hard on yourself Clements points out that comparison culture may not just affect teenagers – if their results aren’t as good as expected, mums and dads might start comparing their own parenting during the revision and exam period with other parents whose kids have got better results. “As a parent or carer, you may also be drawn into unhelpful comparisons with others,” says Clements, “and you may question the amount of support you were able to provide your child in the run up to their exams. However, today is not a day for self-criticism or judgements – some self-compassion is important at this time.” 6. Reach out for support This might be the first results day many parents have gone through with their child, and while comparisons with other teens may well have been unhelpful, Davies points out that schools will have career advisers and teachers available who can offer support and advice. There are also online forums and blogs where those in similar situations share their experiences. She says: “No-one is expecting you to have all the answers – that’s why there’s support available.” Read More Charity boss speaks out over ‘traumatic’ encounter with royal aide Ukraine war’s heaviest fight rages in east - follow live Women more severely affected by ME, study claims 4 hacks to get teens off the sofa and get active – as study warns of heart damage Taking adult education classes may lower risk of dementia, study suggests
2023-08-24 13:15