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HK Police Put HK$1M Bounties on 8 Wanted Democracy Activists
HK Police Put HK$1M Bounties on 8 Wanted Democracy Activists
Hong Kong police are offering HK$1,000,000 ($127,650) rewards for information leading to the arrest of eight pro-democracy activists
2023-07-04 02:38
Google’s Ad Tech Dominance Sparks Breakup Threat From EU
Google’s Ad Tech Dominance Sparks Breakup Threat From EU
Google was accused of abusing its dominance over advertising technology to crush competition, as the European Union fired
2023-06-14 20:15
Can you really find love on LinkedIn? Meet the people who have
Can you really find love on LinkedIn? Meet the people who have
Dating, dating, dating. Where do we even begin? Once upon a time, people had no other option than to find love organically. It wasn't until 1965 that two Harvard students created the first computer-generated matchmaking service. Singletons were asked to fill out questionnaires based on their preferences and would receive a list of potential matches in return. Then came along Match.com in 1995 – the world's first dating website – which later evolved into the online phenomenon we know today with apps and social media accounting for 80 per cent of the modern dating scene. But now, opportunists are looking elsewhere – and it may surprise you. People are seemingly ditching the apps and turning to LinkedIn. Sign up for our free Indy100 weekly newsletter Now, LinkedIn is not and should not be used to seek out romantic relationships. It is a professional networking site and should be preserved for exactly that. If the intention is to purely find love, it not only comes across as creepy but also incredibly awkward – as one woman experienced herself. One TikTok user found herself in a LinkedIn love bomb when she was approached by an unidentified MBA student shooting his shot. She shared a screenshot of the interaction, which read: "Hey Hannah–skipping the line on a dating app and coming straight to you." "Aggressive move, [I know, I know.] Life’s too short not to go for what I am highly interested in," he continued, before softening the blow with an ever so slightly shift to a professional tone: "Happy to connect regardless of your openness to meet. Kindest regards." His attempt was met with fury online, with one calling it a "red flag," adding: "My rage would never. I would say LinkedIn is not a dating site it is a place to find a job." That said, making connections with people who share similar interests could naturally blossom into something more – and it's surprisingly working well for people across the world. TikToker Amber said people should be putting themselves in "environments with high-quality people," and believes LinkedIn is exactly that. "If you're on LinkedIn, I would say you're pretty ambitious and pretty driven," she said. "If you're going to dedicate and commit and be passionate about your career, then why don't you do that for a girl?" Explaining how it took her two years to find a romantic partner, she acknowledged it may be difficult to shift the conversation to dating. However, she believes "if you stick it through, it's going to be well worth it." @appleberryolivia Replying to @princesskynnnn be matched with your dream career and dream man ?? elite. #lovestory Meanwhile, for Noah at New Wave Media, his LinkedIn love story started by innocently looking for a job on the platform. He connected with a woman whose "profile was full of detail about how she'd made an impact within her company and also how she had gotten there." "I reached out to her through the messaging system, asking if we could meet for coffee sometime," he told Indy100. "To my surprise, she said yes. We met at a local coffee shop one afternoon after work one week later—and we've been together ever since!" Marketing executive Shelley also opened up about her unique encounter after reconnecting with her teenage fling through the professional platform. She and her now-husband briefly dated in her earlier years, before losing contact, moving to different states and marrying other people. Twenty years later, Shelley noticed he had moved to Denver, where her parents live. "I mentioned to my mom that John was living in Denver and she encouraged me to reach out," she explained. "The only way I had to reach out to him was on LinkedIn, so I did and we got together for brunch the day after Christmas. He had just gotten divorced as well." She added: "Since then, he moved to Pittsburgh to be with me, we survived the pandemic together, moved to Brooklyn last August and are still going strong!" The desire for love can have no boundaries, and people are more willing to take risks, according to Clarissa Silva, Behavioural Scientist, Relationship Coach, and Creator of Your Happiness Hypothesis Method. "All social media platforms eventually become dating platforms," Clarissa told Indy100. "LinkedIn is no exception. It's solving for our desire to find love when other options have failed." However, Clarissa explained that shopping on LinkedIn for a partner based on career may not yield the result you are looking for and you can soon become the topic of their network's conversation. "If you are using LinkedIn because other dating sites failed you, then you might want to reconsider your strategy and freshen up your profile," she continued. "Adding an additional platform to your search strategy also increases your rejection and ghosting rates which can have an adverse effect on your self-esteem." Meanwhile, Stacy Thomson, mental health clinician and performance coach behind the dating app Reddi, believes approaching people on LinkedIn for love is a "big no, no." "It’s a protected professional space, and people should feel safe," Stacy told Indy100. "However, LinkedIn is the perfect place for building relationships with strangers, and networking. This opens the door for the potential development of romance should two people become attracted to one another." "I guess, LinkedIn provides the opportunity to meet people who are similar to you professionally, and also maybe personally who you may not bump into outside of work." We've got to also consider the the power dynamic on the platform, especially when people are connecting over business or future job prospects. In some instances, this could lead to people using "'work' as a smokescreen when they have different intentions" Jordan Dixon, clinical psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist suggested. An example given by Jordan was someone setting up a business meeting with a hidden romantic interest – which would inevitably bring up ethical questions. "However, for some it might be the case that people may start speaking to one another about work and then attraction may fruition from these interactions and this can be very positive," Jordan continued. "We all know that many relationships can be first formed through our work and many people can find career success very sexy, and LinkedIn can potentially feel like a bit of a sexy taboo thing for some because its not so explicit and can be a turn on for some." Going forward, Jordan advises people to always be mindful, act respectfully and with transparency – otherwise it could backfire massively. Indy100 reached out to LinkedIn for comment. 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2023-07-16 18:00
Yellen, Kanda Put Spotlight on Yen Intervention as Fed Looms
Yellen, Kanda Put Spotlight on Yen Intervention as Fed Looms
Currency traders preparing for this week’s policy decisions from the Federal Reserve and Bank of Japan got fresh
2023-09-20 08:30
Logan Paul cheats to win fight against Ricochet at WWE SummerSlam, jets to Dallas to witness brother Jake Paul's bout
Logan Paul cheats to win fight against Ricochet at WWE SummerSlam, jets to Dallas to witness brother Jake Paul's bout
A video surfaced of Jake Paul donning illegal items in order to beat Nate Diaz in the highly-awaited fight
2023-08-06 13:27
Paul Cattermole’s cause of death: S Club 7 singer died of natural causes at his home, reveals Dorset Coroner Service
Paul Cattermole’s cause of death: S Club 7 singer died of natural causes at his home, reveals Dorset Coroner Service
'I still can’t believe I will never see him again,' Paul Cattermole’s girlfriend Hannah Spearritt said in a statement
2023-05-19 01:34
Businesses, tech groups warn EU against over-regulating AI foundation models
Businesses, tech groups warn EU against over-regulating AI foundation models
By Foo Yun Chee BRUSSELS Businesses and tech groups on Thursday warned the European Union against over-regulating artificial
2023-11-24 02:44
Arnold Schwarzenegger begs his children to stop shunning half-brother Joseph Baena after red carpet run-in
Arnold Schwarzenegger begs his children to stop shunning half-brother Joseph Baena after red carpet run-in
The 25-year-old Baena is the result of Schwarzenegger’s affair with his family's former housekeeper, Mildred Baena
2023-06-06 20:18
Rams know they will have to dig deep to stop both the Eagles and the 'tush push'
Rams know they will have to dig deep to stop both the Eagles and the 'tush push'
Sean McVay and the Los Angeles Rams have tried to run the Philadelphia Eagles' signature “tush push” play this season and it didn't go so well
2023-10-06 07:34
The long-term economic risks of America's budget dysfunction
The long-term economic risks of America's budget dysfunction
The use of stop-gap funding measures to keep the US government open amid frequent political squabbles over how to tackle rising national debt carries long-term...
2023-11-17 09:28
20 Lululemon Styles The Internet Is Completely Obsessed With
20 Lululemon Styles The Internet Is Completely Obsessed With
Throughout the course of lululemon's 25-year athleisure reign, the Canadian-born brand has garnered an impassioned fanbase that few can hold a flame to. The brand has a Subreddit with more than 266,000 users, 4.5 million followers on Instagram, 5.1 million likes along with #lululemon growing over 7.4 billion views on TikTok. Whatever's in its bestselling secret sauce, the internet has a hankering for it. No matter where your habit falls on the obsession spectrum — from lulu-curious noob to veteran lulu-lover with a color-coded Align collection — you might want to know what the most essential, top-rated, and fanatically loved styles are.
2023-06-21 04:43
'Jeopardy!' takes a dig at Elon Musk with hilarious meme on Twitter-killer app Threads
'Jeopardy!' takes a dig at Elon Musk with hilarious meme on Twitter-killer app Threads
Mark Zuckerberg's alternative to Twitter, the Threads app, launched last week, and the beloved ABC game show quickly joined in
2023-07-11 11:55