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Kenny Pickett’s Steelers playbook almost fell into the wrong hands during car theft
Kenny Pickett’s Steelers playbook almost fell into the wrong hands during car theft
Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Kenny Pickett had his vehicle stolen during an interview on Wednesday, and the team's playbook was inside.The Pittsburgh Steelers are expecting to have a huge season in 2023. Even though they just missed out on the playoffs last year, quarterback Kenny Picket...
2023-05-27 07:00
Rio Tinto becomes official aluminium partner of the Montreal Canadiens
Rio Tinto becomes official aluminium partner of the Montreal Canadiens
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2023-10-12 20:02
Will there be 'Too Hot To Handle' Season 6? Here's what viewers can expect next from Netflix's hit dating show
Will there be 'Too Hot To Handle' Season 6? Here's what viewers can expect next from Netflix's hit dating show
Netflix's hit dating show 'Too Hot To Handle' has fans eagerly anticipating Season 6 as they speculate on its possible return
2023-07-28 15:31
France pledges to combat 'overtourism'
France pledges to combat 'overtourism'
Faced with surging numbers of visitors to historic landmarks and natural treasures, France wants to put a lid on the tourist crowds that flood in each year -- though...
2023-06-19 23:51
Wells Fargo & Company Increases Common Stock Dividend and Announces New $30 Billion Common Stock Repurchase Program
Wells Fargo & Company Increases Common Stock Dividend and Announces New $30 Billion Common Stock Repurchase Program
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2023-07-26 04:46
A family uprooted in grief a year on from Uvalde
A family uprooted in grief a year on from Uvalde
The Ramirez's life changed forever a year ago when a gunman shot and killed their daughter alongside 20 others.
2023-05-24 08:06
Australian cricketers create
Australian cricketers create "fighting fund" for national netball players in pay dispute
Australia’s cricketers have created a “fighting fund” to help the country’s netball players amid a bitter pay dispute with Netball Australia
2023-10-18 10:52
SteelSeries Prime Day Sale: 5 Best Deals
SteelSeries Prime Day Sale: 5 Best Deals
SteelSeries' Prime Day sales are officially live. Many of the most popular software and gaming gear from SteelSeries are on sale over the next few days, with some being much more valuable than others. Here are the 5 best SteelSeries Prime Day Deals.
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UPS Union Workers Seek ‘Big Raises’ in Thorny Pay Negotiations
UPS Union Workers Seek ‘Big Raises’ in Thorny Pay Negotiations
United Parcel Service Inc.’s union asked the company for major pay increases and better benefits as negotiations over
2023-06-22 09:20
Mother with Cancer will 'never forgive' her daughter for not shaving head in solidarity
Mother with Cancer will 'never forgive' her daughter for not shaving head in solidarity
A cancer sufferer has been fiercely condemned online for allegedly pressuring her daughter into shaving off her hair. The mum’s own hair had been “destroyed” by chemotherapy and so she urged her 17-year-old child to cut hers in solidarity, according to her husband. The man explained what happened in a lengthy Reddit post, admitting that his wife’s “manipulative” behaviour had left their relationship in turmoil. He wrote: “My wife is currently battling cancer, and one of the things she’s told me she’s struggling with the most was losing her hair. She’s been given a near 100 per cent chance of survival since we caught it early, but the chemotherapy has destroyed her hair anyway, and she had to shave what was left of it off a few weeks ago. “Not long after that, she suggested we attempt to get our 17-year-old daughter, Anna, to do so as well. Anna has very long hair that she puts a lot of care into so I felt it was appropriate to ask her in private if she wanted to/would be willing to do such a thing. She told me that she didn’t want to cut her hair and I figured that was the end of that.” However, he went on: “Yesterday they came home from a ‘girls shopping trip’ [...] and Anna had a buzzed haircut. That struck me as odd after what she’d said, so after dinner I talked to her and she told me that my wife had said she would never forgive Anna if she didn’t show her support by buzzing her head. I asked her if she was happy about it and she said that she wasn’t." He continued: “When I went to bed, I brought it up with my wife and she said ‘it was Anna’s choice to or not, I just told her how I’d see the situation’. “I told her off, saying she needed to respect Anna’s personal choices and that a 17-year-old girl being against shaving her head wasn’t exactly out of the ordinary. However, my wife simply said it was to show support for her.” Wrapping up his post, he admitted: “I love my wife, and I understand that she’s going through something traumatic, however, her attitude comes off as very manipulative to me, and that’s not behaviour I feel I can personally accept. “I’m not sure if I can move past this to continue the relationship,” he concluded. His post on the AITA forum racked up more than 16,000 likes and 3,300 comments in just 16 hours as fellow Redditors voiced their thoughts on the mother’s behaviour. “I'm sorry that [your wife] has cancer, but what she did to your daughter was very abusive,” wrote one horrified commentator. “If she is unable to deal mentally with her disease and treatment, then she needs professional help, not to manipulate and coerce your daughter into making a choice that she didn't want to make. Make no mistake, she ABUSED your daughter.” Another agreed but added that “we need to dig deeper”. “I don't think this was about the wife wanting support so much as her being miserable and envious of her daughter's hair,” they suggested. “The wife is rightfully miserable right now and it's an amazing coincidence that the daughter has long, lovely hair that she's proud of and [takes] good care of. Looking at that long luxurious hair was a daily visual reminder to the wife of her own lost locks. Nice hair, be it long, short or shaved head by choice, is tied very strongly to a woman's personal concept of beauty.” They continued: “Misery loves company and the wife now has the satisfaction of knowing her innocent daughter feels just [as] horrible as she does and the bonus is the wife doesn't have to look at that constant reminder of the hair she lost.” And a third urged the original poster (OP) to take a “long hard look at his wife's relationship with their daughter to see what else she's done that might fit into this pattern”. “Telling your 17yo (sic) you'll never forgive her if she doesn't shave her head? Absolutely unacceptable, but probably isn't an isolated incident. You don't usually see people go from 0 to 60 that fast.” Another user seconded this theory, explaining that they’d suffered similar “abuse” from their own mum. They wrote: “My mother pulled the same hair stunt when her hair came out in clumps as part of menopause. Guilted me into cutting hair I could sit on into a pixie cut like hers. I cried in private for weeks after. “It was part of a much larger pattern of behaviour but this was the first time it was really visible so the first time anyone asked about it. I didn't even realise the guilt trips I'd been sent on until other people's questions made me think back and I learned guilt isn't love. My dad had no idea.” Meanwhile, cancer survivors agreed that they’d never put someone they love through the pain of losing their hair. “As a cancer survivor, I know how sucky this situation is for the OP's wife, but I have a bad feeling that she's going to play the cancer card ad infinitum because she feels life and everyone who doesn't have cancer owes her,” one wrote. Another added: “Cancer survivor too. Losing my hair was worse than losing my breasts. You can't hide it. I would never want someone I love to go through that.” Sign up for our free Indy100 weekly newsletter Have your say in our news democracy. Click the upvote icon at the top of the page to help raise this article through the indy100 rankings.
2023-08-21 23:26
Danny Dyer returning for The Football Factory sequel
Danny Dyer returning for The Football Factory sequel
A sequel to 'The Football Factory' is in the pipeline with Danny Dyer reprising his role as hooligan Tommy Johnson.
2023-11-29 18:17
One Bond Market Is Defying the Global Selloff With Record Returns
One Bond Market Is Defying the Global Selloff With Record Returns
As bond markets everywhere get battered by a cocktail of higher interest rates, deficit angst and hawkish central
2023-10-10 03:00