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Finally, Jennifer Lawrence gets to be funny onscreen with 'No Hard Feelings'
Finally, Jennifer Lawrence gets to be funny onscreen with 'No Hard Feelings'
How is it possible that Jennifer Lawrence, one of our breeziest and most relatable movie
2023-06-23 17:00
Bears OT blows away athletic benchmarks for hilarious reason
Bears OT blows away athletic benchmarks for hilarious reason
Bears tackle Darnell Wright just set the tone for what could be a remarkable rookie campaign, as a relatable accident has suddenly given him a fierce edge compared to his peers.Everyone knows about NFL teams' rigorous offseason conditioning workouts. Some athletes, like Rob Gronkowski, look...
2023-07-30 05:40
Men’s Health Week: How to talk about sensitive or ’embarrassing’ health issues
Men’s Health Week: How to talk about sensitive or ’embarrassing’ health issues
Unsure how to approach a sensitive health conversation with your partner? While there shouldn’t be any shame around health issues, it can feel tricky raising concerns about your partner’s health – especially if it involves something perceived as being ‘embarrassing’ or sensitive. This can particularly apply to men: a survey commissioned by the app myGP last year found one in four men (23%) refuse to seek medical advice about a health issue due to embarrassment. But, what if you’re the partner of a man who may need to tackle a health issue, but you’re nervous about how to bring the topic up? First off, men’s health and sexual function specialist Dr Anand Patel, advisor to Eroxon, says being able to have these conversations in relationships is important. “It is the unsaid conversations that cause the most stress in relationships,” says Patel. “If you have a partnership where you can communicate your needs and stresses on a regular basis, you are probably going to have a really functioning relationship.” So, whether you’re in a heterosexual or same-sex relationship, how do you go about it? “These talks are important to have in a kind manner,” says Patel. “Don’t blindside them, don’t catch them off-guard. It is about helping with the health of each other.” As Men’s Health Week (June 12-18) begins, here are three common men’s health problems, and advice on how to talk to your partner about them… Toilet habit changes Have you noticed that your partner’s toilet habits have altered? Patel says this could include them “having difficulty passing urine, running to the toilet all the time, or getting up a lot in the night” to pee. This can be very common, particularly as men get older, and it is often linked to the prostate (a small gland, located near the bladder, which helps make semen). An enlarged prostate can affect urination, and while this is usually caused by a harmless condition called benign prostate enlargement (BPE), it can sometimes be a symptom of cancer so it’s important to get it checked out by a doctor. Plus, there are treatments that can help – it isn’t something men need to just live with. But how do you raise the conversation if someone seems reluctant to talk about it? “I would suggest having an idea in your head of what you want to say. Speak in a private place, where they have not just got back from work or are rushing out,” says Patel, who suggests approaching it by saying: ‘Can we catch up about something that has been on my mind?’ “Keep an even tone, even if you are annoyed you are being kept up at night. This might be a bit embarrassing, signpost that, then discuss how it affects you and explain you are worried about them.” Erectile dysfunction Erectile dysfunction (ED) is very common and often nothing to worry about if it only happens occasionally and there’s an obvious cause. But sometimes it can be more of a frequent problem – and Patel says it’s important for people to be able to talk about it in relationships. He explains: “It could be a sign of health issues. Perhaps due to anxiety, depression, work, grief, stress, or a health condition” – such as diabetes or a heart problem. Erectile dysfunction can be a sensitive topic, however. When it comes to discussing it with your partner, Patel suggests: “Pick a good place and time – not after sex. Signpost that it is not a blame thing. Explain that you still enjoy what you do together, but have noticed differences. Ask how he is feeling and whether the problem is something you can work on together. Say what you need to say, but do it kindly.” Remember, GPs hear about ED all the time and there are lots of effective treatments. “Many current treatments don’t involve the partner at all; he shuffles off and deals with it, be it through tablets or a pump,” says Patel. “Whereas if you are able to engage with foreplay, you can use something to improve the situation together, such as Eroxon [treatment gel]. The topical nature of the gel means you can get your partner fully involved with some manual stimulation too.” A lump on their testicles You are having sex with your partner and come across a lump. Now what? “Perhaps don’t say there is a lump when you are having sex – bring it up another time soon after, and don’t delay,” suggests Patel. However, he stresses that this “could be an urgent conversation”. Patel adds: “Maybe it is [a lump] they have known about for years that is nothing to be worried about, but you should ask. Once you have said something, be quiet and give them some time. They could be feeling angry, embarrassed, shocked, or confused about how you might feel. If they say they don’t want to speak to a doctor, try to work out why. Make it clear you are worried.” A lump doesn’t always mean cancer. However, this is a possibility – testicular cancer is the most common form of cancer in men aged between 15-49, according to the NHS – so it’s important to get any unusual lumps and bumps checked out quickly. Testicular cancer be often be successfully treated, but detecting it early does help. “Sometimes you have to mention cancer to make someone take an issue seriously,” says Patel. “You may want to be kind, but you cannot avoid the fact they might have a problem.” Read More Charity boss speaks out over ‘traumatic’ encounter with royal aide Ukraine war’s heaviest fight rages in east - follow live Prince William responds after three guardsman collapse during UK heatwave Chanel’s classic 1926 little black dress added to fashion exhibition in Scotland 6 innovative self-tan products to help you get your best-ever faux glow
2023-06-12 15:00
Ukraine says oil refinery hit, power lines damaged in Russian drone attack
Ukraine says oil refinery hit, power lines damaged in Russian drone attack
KYIV A Russian drone attack set ablaze the Kremenchuk oil refinery in central Ukraine and knocked out power
2023-11-01 20:24
Salah wants to stay at Liverpool, says Szoboszlai
Salah wants to stay at Liverpool, says Szoboszlai
Mohamed Salah wants to remain at Liverpool despite interest from the Saudi Pro League, said his teammate Dominik Szoboszlai after both scored in Sunday's...
2023-09-03 23:38
When will 'The Bachelorette' Season 20 Episode 7 air? Charity Lawson prepares for her toughest decision yet
When will 'The Bachelorette' Season 20 Episode 7 air? Charity Lawson prepares for her toughest decision yet
'The Bachelorette' Season 20 star Charity Lawson has been on a journey to learn more about her suitors and has to narrow them down further
2023-08-01 10:00
Big Tobacco posts warning signs at 220,000 US stores, wrapping up ongoing lawsuit since 1999
Big Tobacco posts warning signs at 220,000 US stores, wrapping up ongoing lawsuit since 1999
The largest tobacco manufacturers will have to post eye-catching warning signs about cigarette smoking in over 200,000 stores across America beginning Saturday, one of the final major steps in a lawsuit the Justice Department filed against Big Tobacco in 1999.
2023-07-01 19:41
Don't panic: Here's why you will be hearing sirens go off near Palo Verde for the next few days
Don't panic: Here's why you will be hearing sirens go off near Palo Verde for the next few days
The Maricopa County Department of Emergency Management has announced that 'growl tests' will be carried out at the Palo Verde Generating Station
2023-12-01 19:36
Moises Caicedo: Mauricio Pochettino offers update on Chelsea's transfer plans
Moises Caicedo: Mauricio Pochettino offers update on Chelsea's transfer plans
Mauricio Pochettino has offered an insight into Chelsea's transfer plans as talks over Moises Caicedo continue.
2023-07-19 02:35
Germany thrashed at home by Japan as miserable run under Hansi Flick continues
Germany thrashed at home by Japan as miserable run under Hansi Flick continues
Germany were beaten 4-1 at home by Japan as their horrendous run of form ahead of next summer's Euro 2024 on home soil continued. Pressure is building on head coach Hansi Flick after securing just four wins from their last 17 games.
2023-09-10 05:10
The Best Video Conferencing Software for 2023
The Best Video Conferencing Software for 2023
These days, most of us should be familiar with using video conferencing in our business
2023-08-18 02:31
Andrew Tate dubs Kamala Harris 'incompetent' accusing vice president of playing 'race card', trolls call him 'woman abusing wussy'
Andrew Tate dubs Kamala Harris 'incompetent' accusing vice president of playing 'race card', trolls call him 'woman abusing wussy'
Andrew Tate said, 'I don't think I've ever heard her put a compendious coherent sentence together, she leans so heavily on race because she's not impressive'
2023-07-13 15:10